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There's a light-hearted axiom about therapy that goes something like this: a client will come to therapy with the goal of changing something, then spend the rest of the time resisting that goal. Change is hard, and it takes time. I'll keep you on track and reflect back when I see you getting in your own way.
We won't be spending time on the fight of the week, or litigating which one of you is "right." Instead, the goal is clarity, and to get to the root of the conflicts in your relationship. Most couples say the problem is "communication", but that's usually just the beginning.
It is ironic that one of the most natural of human behaviors is also one of the least communicated about between couples. Perhaps you grew up in a household where sex was not openly discussed. Or maybe your very normal sexual feelings and desires were considered a "sin" by the faith in which you were raised.